Hop Against Homophobia

I grew up in a very small town in the middle of nowhere. When I was younger, it always seemed like there were only a couple hundred people who lived there (it was really 7k or so). We were a 45 minute drive from the nearest interstate and mall. There was no movie theater, and half the time we didn't have a clothing store (they went in and out of business like going bankrupt was in style).

In other words, I grew up under a rock. :3 Half the rock was my own making; I was an introvert and much more interested in reading than in the same 200 boring people that inhabited my town. (None of them had magic! How could they compete?) Homophobia didn't seem real to me; it was an abstract concept that I'd never experienced or recognized in anything around me. (This is not to say it wasn't there, but to say that I was an oblivious, self-absorbed young person, a.k.a., a typical teenager.)

High school really cemented this. I can remember three gay classmates off the top of my head. Two had been out for as long as I could remember (the girl actually asked me out once; I declined on the grounds she was too short (seriously, I was a strange, strange teenager)). The third was a little older, a year or two before me in high school; he was the stereotypical jock, on the football and basketball teams. I remember he came out when I was in high school, and I couldn't figure out why it was gossip. I don't know if anyone gave him a hard time about it, but nothing seemed to change. He was still friends with the same people and did the same things.

It wasn't until I got to college and had my own computer and a connection to the world (the great and wonderful internet!) that I realized that things like homophobia, racism, etc., weren't just theoretical concepts. I had never experienced or witnessed any overt homophobic actions, but the internet brought me to people who had. I was connected to wonderful, creative, lovely people who had experienced homophobic discrimination, who had suffered and looked down upon because other people thought less of them because of who they loved.

So, while it may seem like common sense that gay people are first and foremost people, and deserve all the respect that entails, it's always worth repeating. It's never, ever right to ridicule or discriminate against someone because of who they are and who they love.

 

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In support of the Hop, I'm offering a giveaway prize of one copy of any paperback in my backlist.* To enter the giveaway, leave a comment on this post on my website or LJ (tumblr will not be counted because I don't actually understand tumblr). Please include your email address in the comment so I can get in touch with you. ^__^

Givewaway technically ends on May 20 at 11:59 p.m. Eastern Time, but I probably won't draw until the morning of the 21st because I like my sleep. Winner will be selected using random.org and will have 48 hours to get back to me after being notified, after which point a new winner will be selected.

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*Backlist includes That Famous Happy End, Fairytales Slashed: Volume 2, Stolen Hearts, Living Words, Seeing is Believing, or the upcoming Saving Liam**

** If Saving Liam is chosen, it will ship as soon as it is in my grubby little hands (very, very soon).***

*** I promise no grubbiness will be transferred to the book. ^__~